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Sometimes you get so caught up with the daily grind of life, the bills, housework, the drama’s, relationships, children etc., that you always put your own needs right at the bottom of the list, oftentimes not even reaching anywhere close to starting to do things that give you joy and pleasure.  Why do we do that?  Why if YOU are the most important person in your life that you do not give yourself the much needed relaxation and rest that is necessary for you to be able to do all the tasks that you have lined up on a daily basis.  Why are we our own worst enemy, especially if taking that time out will be beneficial not only to you but to the relationships that you hold dear?  When you lack this balance of giving and receiving for yourself you grow resentful resulting in your giving being a chore rather than a desire to give.

The other obstacle you come across when trying to fulfil this much needed element of your well being is that you find it difficult to carve out the time as well as the resources so that you can have a good time.  Sort of like a catch 22 situation!

Well it is doable, you just have to be able to critically reassess your needs and put yourself as a priority, for if you are not happy in the knowledge that you are achieving balance in your life, all your other relationships suffer because of it.

Just for today do a little pampering just for you, buy those lovely shoes you have been pining over, sit and read that book you have wanted to read, buy some lovely bath products and indulge in bath, wine, candlelight and music.  For goodness sake do something for you today (I am talking to myself here), for if you do not value how great and special you are then how can you reasonably expect someone else to do the same for you.