This is going towards all my beautiful, independant women. There have been times in my life where I have had my heart broken, but that does not mean that you should break down straight away and give up on all the people which love and care about you just because your focused on that one paticular person. Why should I love someone that does not give a shit about me? it doesn't make sense. Just because you have been with your man for a long period of time, it does not mean that you should be attached to him just because he is the one that took your virginity. If he treats you like shit then you should move on with your life and find someone which does love and care about you and does not only think about himself, he must meet your needs aswell.
One more point I would also like to make. Looks arent everything, looks wont certainly be there in 50 years times. In my eyes, personality is what makes a relationship work. I would rather have a guy that makes me smile and laugh then a guy which talks about the way he looks. Im not going to lie, I have experienced times like that. One time in my life, there was a guy which was so obsessed by the way that he looks that he didn't pay no attention to me although the only thing I wanted to do was to love him. All he kept mentioning to me was that looks were so important and that he would rather go out with a girl which looked like a supermodel. I was really upset because obviously he didnt see me as the supermodel type. He called me a dry looking girl and would always make fun of me. The comments he made has effected me a lot and that is why I am writing about it. I have matured a lot since that time and if the same comment was made to me again, I would handle the situation differently. I would certainly not cry about it and would walk away.
I have matured so much and have learnt from my mistakes. The only people that I care about is my family and closest friends (shout out to baby blu, amazing person) She has also suffered a lot regarding relationships and life itself.
Melo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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