The biggest interest i have in life is human beings.That is why i dont know how to turn people down.The best thing i can anyone and i give it uniformly,is RESPECT,from the smallest child to the oldest man,they get equal respect.I've gone thru some relationships that actually hit the rock at the end.So,to trust is very difficult at the moment.But i may get to trust you along the line but there will be somethings i might have discovered in you.FEAR?You must be kidding me.I reserve that only for GOD.I dont care about what is written or said of me as long as it isn't the truth.
TO ALL GIRLS OUT THERE:
Awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are ... and that's OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.)Learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it's not always about you.
Learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.Learn that you don't know everything, it's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a pig to sing.
Learn to distinguish between guilt and responsibility and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO.
Learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake. Then you learn about love. Romantic love and familiar love. How to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away.
Learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of the man on your arm or the child that bears your name.
Learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.
Learn that just as people grow and change so it is with love...learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms...just to make you happy.
Learn that alone does not mean lonely.
Look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up."
Come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity and respect and you won't settle for less. And,allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you to glorify you with his touch...and in the process you internalize the meaning of self-respect.
Make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting, and to stay open to every wonderful possibility. Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side you take a stand, you take a deep breath and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.
Pay no attention to the faults of others,
things done or left undone by others.
Consider only what by oneself is done or left undone
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