manz keepin it simple no wasteman or gal hollin on my shit!
if ur real nd want 2 cum proper den hola!
datz it!
anything else just ask!
itz reall!!!!
IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships ..............there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr..Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another
RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............
"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that
was not supposed to ever let you down probably will.
You will have your heart broken probably more than
once and it's harder every time. You will break hearts
too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.
You will fight with your best friend. You will blame a
new love for things an old one did. You will cry
because time is passing too fast, and you will
eventually lose someone you love. So take too many
pictures, laugh too much, and love like you have never
been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset
is a minute of happiness you will never get back."
Dis for Ladies i call it"LaDiEs~ReJeCtIoN"
Ever wonder y guys always come at u wit disrespect n shallow remarks? A lot of that comes from us! I am the last one 2 make excuses for a disrespectful brotha but look at things from their point of view. Females these days want them smooth talkin pretti bois or thugged out gankstaz. Where does the good guy fit in? In order to try to avoid rejection the good guy pretends 2 b something that he is not! Nice guys finish last is not far from the truth! Another thing.... just b cuz a guy doesn't look like a gq model doesn't mean he is not worthy of luv. Don't turn your nose up b cuz a guy is not ur image of beauty! Be careful of how u treat people b cuz karma will come back on u times 2! Please... give these guys a fair chance. Personality can add jus as well as take away from looks-real talk! Stop bein so stuck up! N remember, everyone wants 2 luv as well as b luved-yes even thuz n pretti bois. Fear causes people to run from luv.... u can run but u can never hide. Love will find u.... don't let it pass u by!!!