Lets just get da boring bits out da way

YEAH I am 25 I know I look younger but trust me I am 25 yrs young and if you think I look young wait till u hear my voice !!!!
NAH I have not had a boob job my breasts are naturally this size. Plus I can think of a million other ways to waste a couple grand.
WELL..... I am Zara but you can call me Empress...
Now dont get it twisted wen I say that Im an Empress.
I dont use the word as some childish definition of how pretty or girly i am. Nah Nah Nah Nah 
OK time to pick sense out of nonsense !!!!!!
An emperor is a (male) monarch, usually the sovereign ruler of an empire or another type of imperial realm. Empress is the feminine form. As a title, "empress" may indicate the wife of an emperor or a woman who is a ruling monarch Emperors are generally recognized to be above kings in honor and rank.
If you understand wat the above means and says about me then msg/ comment me with your understanding of it.
Or you could just msg me and say the usual "Hi", "your cute" or "what you sayin" but thats boring
dont you agree???
Come on ppl and try to hold a constructive conversation. I challenge you.

IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then HELL no, you can't be friends. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think it will get better.' You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently ??????? 
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he hasmore education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise is a two-way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing CUTE about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consistsof two WHOLE individuals...Look for someone complimentary...Not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with others..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK their choices, and another PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour
to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.